Just Food and Necessities
You're On Your Own
For some parents, a kid
is no longer a kid once he or she leaves the house and strikes out on
his or her own. Though this may seem harsh, many parents who no longer
support their children or provide them with money find that their children
grow greatly in terms of responsibility and are more appreciative of
their upbringing and proud of their accomplishments. However, working
your way through college is certainly not easy, and students who are
forced to work often end up with less time to devote to their studies
and may make lower grades than their peers. If you believe that college
is all about learning, growing, and experiencing, know that you could
severely limit these opportunities for your child if you make them work
for every last penny.
A Free Ride
On the opposite extreme,
you have parents who provide for every single need (and want) that their
children have. While some parents would never dream of doing anything
else, this is not highly recommended. Students who have everything they
want handed to them often don't learn the value of hard work. Sometimes,
this passes over into the classroom, with these students doing minimal
work and still expecting excellent grades. These students may also take
advantage of their parents' “kindness” and party on their dime.
Students who are fully provided for are also very unlikely to get a
job, which can hinder future work opportunities and keep them from learning
the value and importance of responsibility.
A Happy Medium
The vast majority of parents
aren't going to go all-or-nothing with their children. For most, a happy
medium is what it's all about. This tends to be a wise decision, since
it shows children that you still love for and care about them but also
that they need to love and care for themselves.
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